Halloween Party, Mark's Birthday and trip to Nashville

Well had a lot to do this weekend and not enough time to do it all!!! I wanted to go to Mark and Wes' Halloween party, Rick and Cody's Halloween party and Steven and Bo's too! I wish I could have went to them all, but One was in Evansville IN, Spotsville KY and Nashville TN! Plus to add to it, it was Mark's birthday. So we ended up at Nashville TN at Stevens and Bo's party. I don't have the pix yet, but I will post them when I get them!

Mike P, Mike G, Mark and I headed to Nashville TN to help celebrate Mark's Birthday and go to Steven and Bo's party. We stayed at a nice little hotel and got ready to go out. Mark dressed in leather, Mike G was a fireman and Mike P was in a leather kilt. We looked like the village people, but we always do LOL!

We made it to the Halloween party about 8PM, and the place was packed! What a colorful array people there. At one point in the night, Mark wanted to go out side to smoke, so I went with him. Out on the back deck, there was a guy dressed a rabbit. Someone asked him, "How tall are you?" He replied I am 6' 10", there was a dead silence after that and this 60 some odd year lady yelled out, well how big is your penis? We all burst out laughing our asses off! I have to say that somed up that party in a nut shell. I meet a lot of nice people at this party.

Mark was in full party mode and started handing me Jello shots one after another, I think we has 12 total not counting the mixed drinks we had. Needless to say we got a good buzz going on there. The Mikes also had it going on too.

I seen some people that I knew well and from Henderson KY and Evansville IN. That was great to see some People I know. But I have to say I was very comfortable at the party, Steve and Bo make you fel right at home.

Mark decided it was time to go and as we walked out, I am not going to say with one, but one of the Mikes just about fell off the steps and made Mark and I laugh so hard! Don't worry no one was hurt! But it was funny as hell. We made it at the first bar called Stirrups. A nice little mans bar.

It was packed there, I mean wall to wall to wall people and a lot of people were decked out in Halloween costumes. As I was walking through the bar, I seen this guy walking toward me dressed as a boy scout. I have to say he was a very hot man, and I loved his outfit. As he walked toward me, I looked at him and said nice costume and he replied same to you. About 15 minutes later, he walked back me and our eyes locked. Now it was on!

He waled up to me and introduced himself, I could not hear him very well and I replied, did you say Adam? He looked me with this strange look and said no I said Matt, but Adam is my first name and how did you know that? I don't know why I thought he said Adam but god works in strange ways.

We talked for awhile and it was very refreshing to talk to someone that I had so much in common with. I don't know how it came up, but we talked about church. Wow someone else that has same views with me on church and actually goes!

Mark wanted to head to another bar, so I gave him my phone number and he gave me his, and we all left and went to bar called Trax. That bar was a dumb, scary people and the drink prices were way to high! We did not stay that long, because Mike P wanted to go back to the other bar and Mike G wanted to go back to hotel. I think he had a lot to drink and was very hungry.

Mark and Mike went back to the other bar and I stayed with Mike and called him a cab. I waited awhile and called back and the taxi guy said it would be a few hours. So I asked Mike to go back to the other bar, because I was not going to stay there.

Then the strangest thing, my phone went off and it was Matt, telling Mike and Mark asked him to call me and us come back. As I walked up to the bar, there stood Matt with a big smile on his face. It was nice to see that! So we picked up right where we left off. Again god had something in plan for us.

We could not get a cab and Mike keep on asking me for my phone to call. So Matt so kind enough to take us back to our hotel. What a sweet man, to offer us a ride and I have to say the Mikes were feeling the night. He was so kind that he left us there so we would not have to walk, and picked us up and took us to the hotel.

As everyone climbed out of the car I reached over asked him if I could kiss him and thanked him for his kindness and I hope I would get to talk with him soon. He said well you could come home with me, if you like? Well hell yes I thought, but I said on condition, no sex. He said he could do that.

I went in to get my bags so i could get ready in the morning to go to church with. I told you all god works in the strangest ways! We finally got to sleep about 5 AM and then got up to go to a wonderful  church called http://www.holytrinitycommunitychurch.com/  WOW what a great place!

As soon as I hit the door I could feel the holy spirit hit me like a ton of lead! This church was bubbling over with it! Today was the 15th birthday of the church and they had a special service of nothing but gospel music. The first song was "Amazing grace" and the last time I heard that song was at my Dads's service. So I broke out in tears because I felt my Dad with me there.

 After the service was over he took me back to the hotel. I want to thank Matt for taking me there, and just being a real person. I don;t know what god has in plan for us? but we will see!

Life in a small town

Morning all! Life in a small town for the most part is nice, but the bad side of it is that everyone knows your business a little to much. Plus with social media and blogs everyone post everything. LOL I called myself out on that one!

It was a great week so far this week so far and I am so looking forward to Mark's birthday this weekend in Nashville! I had a talk with one of friends this week and it wasn't an easy one. He has been having a problem since he and his boyfriend split up, and he has been going wild. I care for his well being because he a very good friend to me and would do any thing to help me.

We talked about what is going on in his life, and what he is doing. He is headed down a bad road that I taking before. I don't want him to make the same mistakes I have made. I see so much of myself a few years ago before I became a little jaded and I don't want that to happen to him. I hope our talk went to his head and heart, but knowing myself (both of us being an Aries) he is going to have to make the mistake and I will have to be here waiting to help pick up the pieces. That what a good friend is for.

Speaking of friends, one thing I have to say is that I have the best friends anyone could ever ask for! I can't say enough good things about them. They have been here for me and never wanted anything in return but my friendship. I wish I would have found them earlier in my life.

David B has moved to Washington state and I miss him so. Our friendship grew stronger right before he left and I hated that. But he is happier now. I need to go and visit him soon!

The only friend that is missing in that picture is Mark. Wow what can I say but he is such good guy too. Has a heart of gold and makes me laugh so much! So here is a picture of us.

So I am so lucky to have such good friends as these! I need to remember how lucky I am. If I ever need anything, they are always there for me.

Halloween Party on Oct 22, 2011

Well guys I want to start a new blog on what is going on in my life. I think it will be much easier in the furture, to write my book this way.

Well I had the day off to go to Silver Monroe's Halloween party. Mike G, Mark, David H and I were all going. David dressed as his usual cowboy, his little rubber shorts, black leather chaps with fringe and a black cowboy hat. Mike on the other hand, LOL it took us a few hours to pick out his costume for the evening. He chose to wear his chain mail shirt, black leather pants and cape. Mark did a Harley rider with his black boots, black leather vest and black tee shirt. Every body look great! I went as an Marine. Mike P was not in town for the weekend, he went to Lexington to the Mr Bluegrass contest.

The night started out with all of us meeting at David's house. After we all got there, we were off to Silver's house. The party ended up being out in the middle of no where and I mean no where. We were going down the road and we felt like we were in a horror movie, you know the one where some friends set out to go some where for fun and they get lost and some hillbilly or freaks kill them. The house was the last on on the right. Doesn't that sound like part two to another movie?

Silver has been a good friend to me never talking about me behind my back and always polite to me when I was a bartender at Scottys. I do miss the those days. It was kinda like Scottys there, Bill and Tony were there, Mike M, Clint and David. Most of the Scottys crew. As usual Silver put on a great show. But she did have Traci Dallas there, which is not one of my favorite drag queens at all. She looks like a clown the way she puts on her make up. I just don't understand that? I did not say that to be mean, it is just what I think.

I had a little too much to drink there, but I was having a good time. I think Mike could have not neen bothered to even go, he acted like he did not have fun at all. Now as for David and Mark, they seamed to make the most of it.

Mark and David got into a little bit of a fight, I would like to go into it, but since this a public blog I will not say what it was all about. I never know who might be reading this. At least before the night was over with, they did make up. All is well in our little group.

After the show was over with, we all went to SPE night club for a few hours. The place was packed with wall to wall people. A lot of people were drunk too. Russ, a friend of mine, was there and some how we lip locked a few times and still asking myself why? He is young enough to be my son!!! He is cute and we were drunk, but wow, what got into me?

I have to say I do not have a dull life at all! I would like to share my life with someone but I am never too bored with what is going on with me. I know this is a little short, but I need to type one for today too.