I ask myself this question all the time, How do I know? I guess the best advice I can give myself is that you will know deep in your sole, you will feel it. It has happened before and it will happen again. I am sure you all know what I am talking about? I am talking about when you fall for someone.
It confuses me so. I don't know if it something I want, or is something I just feel? When I meet a guy there is a certain something that you feel as soon as he walks up. Most the time it is lust and sometimes it is just to talk. If the lust connects and gos to the next step or spend the night just talking, sometimes you feel in the pit of your stomach there could be something there.
Now with that said, damn that scares the hell out of me! Although I would like to date someone and have someone to just be there with me though the good times and the bad, I am still afraid of getting hurt. Which makes me not want to take the steps to get to know someone that I feel something for.
The latest one I meet scares me so. We had the best night and I felt something and I think so did he. Now when is a good time call? Go back out? Just don't want to seam pushy? Don;t want seam so distant. With all these questions, what do I do?
I have tried to just go for it and it has come back to smack me in the face and other times I kept my distance and lost the guy to someone else. So how do I know? What is right and when it is right?
I know one thing I have learned, you can make it happen. If you don't feel it deep inside, it is just not there and you cant make it happen. I have a guy that is head over heals for me, but it is not there for me. I have tried and tried to make it happen and I can't make it. Well one day it will happen for me. I think I am a pretty good guy with a lot to offer to that special person.
It confuses me so. I don't know if it something I want, or is something I just feel? When I meet a guy there is a certain something that you feel as soon as he walks up. Most the time it is lust and sometimes it is just to talk. If the lust connects and gos to the next step or spend the night just talking, sometimes you feel in the pit of your stomach there could be something there.
Now with that said, damn that scares the hell out of me! Although I would like to date someone and have someone to just be there with me though the good times and the bad, I am still afraid of getting hurt. Which makes me not want to take the steps to get to know someone that I feel something for.
The latest one I meet scares me so. We had the best night and I felt something and I think so did he. Now when is a good time call? Go back out? Just don't want to seam pushy? Don;t want seam so distant. With all these questions, what do I do?
I have tried to just go for it and it has come back to smack me in the face and other times I kept my distance and lost the guy to someone else. So how do I know? What is right and when it is right?
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