Playtime Explored – Role/Play

July 31, 2012

By Paul Brown

Role-playing fantasies is a great tool; they assist in awakening creativity and imagination in the couple, Role-playing can also help divert from routine sex, and may heighten and enrich sexual relations.

The beauty of role-playing is that you can be anyone you want: anyone you have ever wanted to be or anyone your partner has always desired. Always had a thing for nurses, teachers, or cops? Act out our sexual fantasy with a little role-playing and add some fun and spice to your sex life. With the right partner, you shouldn’t be too shy or too nervous to give fun sex a try.

Role-playing and sex games can go beyond just a little talk and pretending — you can dress up in outfits and costumes and act out an entire fantasy or scenario. Start out with something simple, and work your way into more complex role-playing as you and your partner become more comfortable. It’s exhilarating to shed your everyday self and be someone different and exciting, and it’s even more fun to take on that new persona in bed with sex games. Pretending that you’re someone else may make you feel less inhibited, more relaxed, and more willing to try something new.

Bondage or SM (sadomasochism) is a fantasy-based type of role-playing in which leather and restraints are often used. Leather can be erotic for many people; so can the idea of bondage and control. However, it’s important to make sure both parties enjoy these types of sex games and that each person in the relationship is comfortable with bondage or SM role-playing.

There are lots of sex games you can play, and role-playing is a great place to start. Do you or your partner have a certain fantasy? Start with that.

Family by choice

You are my family, but we don’t share blood.


You are my family by choice.


The most powerful bond is the one that we choose.


I choose you as my friend, and rejoice.

You are my sister and you are my brother.


We are the closest of kin.


You are the one I can call in the night,


and know that you’ll wake with a grin.

When trouble shows up and grief’s close behind,


your words and your love keep me strong.


It’s you who would sit by my hospital bed,

and love me a beautiful song.

You Intend for the world to be gentle to me,


and you Vision my life full of Peace.


We are joined in a way that is foreign to most,


and I pray that it never will cease.

My Love

"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart."

Love

Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all, never… never forget it.

The Truth

Never apologize for showing feeling. 

When you do so, you apologize for the truth 

What is love?

What is love? Love is when one person knows all of your secrets... your deepest, darkest, most dreadful secrets of which no one else in the world knows... and yet in the end, that one person does not think any less of you; even if the rest of the world does. 

Even the nights are better

I never dreamed there'd be someone to hold, until you told me and now that I found you! 

FREEDOM!

Remember the time

In Your Room

Don't stand so close to me

Is this the love I have been looking for?

Well it happened to me, something I thought was dead in me. Yes I am in Love with a handsome and wonderful man! I am very lucky I have found him, because I thought it wasn't within me. He proved me wrong, thank God! We have decided to give this a chance and see where it goes.

I have to say, the more I get to know him, the more I love him. He is everything I was looking for, after I stopped looking. It is so true when people say stop looking and it will find you. It did for me!!!

Throughout life you will meet one person who is unlike any other. This person is one you could forever talk to. They understand you in a way that no one else does or even could. This person is your soul mate, your best friend. Don't ever let them go, for they're your guardian angel sent from heaven above.

What can I say about him, but he loves me for whom I am and the same goes for me. He understand me, and most of all he gets me! We are so much a like but yet so different, which makes for a great relationship. We have a great start and I am looking forward to see what happens in the future! 


One the thing that has impressed me so much was his art. Here is picture he drew that I love so dearly. (He has a bachelors in art and Masters in music, so impressive!) 

There are so many sides to him that brings out the best in me. He has opened my eyes up to new things and to see things so differently. He has inspired me to do a picture a day, as I see it, with my twist on it, every picture title is a name of song, that fits the picture. Thank you so much Shayne, I love you and I look forward to our life ahead of us!

Something has changed in my Life

Too many people are thinking of security instead of opportunity. They seem to be more afraid of life than death!


I use to think this way until Shayne came into my life and now I am thinking about the opportunities that are ahead of me instead of being safe. My life has taken another jump start!


He has inspired me to do open my heart and my mind. I thought it would be a big deal that he lives so far from my me, but something about him makes it all OK. Also he showed me his blog and how he likes to take pictures. Which now I want to do the same thing with my own twist.

His eye to detail is amazing and he has opened my eyes to things I have never noticed. I am so glad he has shown me his world though his eyes. 


He takes a picture every day and I think I will start doing the same with my own twist. Now what that twist is? Well I will have to figure that out.

Well as you see, I think, well I am I in love with him. He is one great guy with a wonderful heart! He has changed my life for the better!

The one

I have to say I had a great night last night! Shayne and I have been talking for a long time now and decided to meet in St Louis to see if this spark is real, and I have to say it was!

We meet at the Harrah's Casino in St Louis and the moment I saw him get out of his car, my eyes lite up and heart started to beat a little faster. Finally a man that made me see that I still have a heart to love someone and not be that scared to show it.


He has the most beautiful blue eyes and when I look into them I see a wonderful man and a pure sole. I see a man that has opened my heart and eyes to see a whole new world.


I thought I had lost that ability to feel that after my last break up, 4 years ago. Thank God that I got the chance to meet him and feel the things he made me feel.


You know that spark when you meet someone? I felt it with him and trust me, you can't make yourself feel it. It chooses you, you don't choose it. Is this the one? The one that will be mine for the rest of life? I hope so!


I know we meet online about a year ago and only started to talk on the phone the last few weeks, but he does feel like he is the one for me. I know what you are saying to yourself, you only just meet him, how could you love him? Well my parents knew each other for 2 weeks before they got married and they were together till my Father dies for 60 years.


We have talked about "our relationship" and we both agree, there is no problem as permanent as a solution to it. So if we go into this, with this idea, then it will work. We will make it work.


We are so much a like but yet have some many things different. That the makings of a great relationship.  It makes me smile to see him how passionate he is about things I never thought about or even looked at. He is good for me as I am for him.

I have to give thanks to God for sending him my way! One of new years resolutions was to stop looking and just face it, I would be alone for the rest of life. But guess what, I wont!!!!!!

Story of my life

I've got everything I need except a man. And I'm not one of those men who thinks a man is the answer to everything, but I'm tired of being alone.

Terry and I

I am taking the attitude this year to being positive and not dwell in the past. I have to say I love having my own place and living alone, but I do miss dating someone and just having someone by my side when I wake up.


I've been blessed in life with meeting some good men and sharing love with them. Sometimes I think TV has messed up my point of view on how relationships work. All is fixed in an half hour, LOL, right.

Drew and I

I hope that this year will be a whole lot different in a lot ways and hope to at lease to meet someone that shares the same views as me and hold the same values, well at lease close to mine.


I want to meet a man that has his own place, so we still have our space and just take things slow and get to know them and me. Someone who likes to go to church and feels similar to how I do about it.

David and I

I don't think I am asking for a whole lot, but seams it is so hard to find. But you know what? I think he is out there and God will cross our paths one day soon. Come on God I am still waiting!


I don't need a man to define me, just one to be beside me. For the good times and the bad. To use a favorite quote of mine, I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.